When it comes to finding joy on a daily basis, one of the best things we can do is look for the simple pleasures in life. There’s actually compelling scientific research that explains why focusing on life's simple pleasures is so important!
The scientific power of finding simple pleasures in life
A lot of us think the best way to get ahead in life is to put the pedal to the metal. This mentality drives our goal setting and helps us stay on track. Or at least we think it will!
A study was done in 2016 that actually found the opposite to be true. Instead of restricting our pleasure to achieve our goals, we are more successful when we find enjoyment in what the researchers defined as “simple pleasures”. These are pleasures that are accessible to nearly everyone without cost. They are short, positive, everyday pleasures. And they’re highly personal to you. Meaning what I think is a simple pleasure may not be what you think is a simple pleasure.
The key is taking time to pause and find what these simple pleasures are for you. This is what will help us make progress on our daily life goals. And ultimately this will make us happy along the way.
How to look for and enjoy life’s simple pleasures
So, what are simple pleasures in life you might enjoy? The good news is that they’re probably all around you. And simple pleasures come in all shapes and sizes. They’re the things that help you enjoy life.
There are many things that we do in daily life that can bring us pleasure. In fact, we have small things we do already that are enjoyable. Sometimes we just need to spend time thinking about them as small pleasures and things to be grateful for.
In other words, it’s all about recognizing them and mentally cataloging these small things as something nice, something to be appreciated, and something that brings a smile to your face. After all, that’s a simple pleasure in a nutshell.
113 Simple Pleasures in Life
- Waking up by the light of the sun and not your alarm
- Going to bed the night before vacation
- Receiving a handmade gift or handwritten note
- Walking barefoot through plush grass
- Stargazing during a meteor shower
- Plating a meal you cooked for friends or family
- Spending quality time with a loved one
- Finishing a hike with a beautiful view
- Listening to your favorite music while walking or running
- Sleeping well and feeling refreshed the next morning
- Adding something life-giving to your daily routine
- Laying in a hammock
- Starting to feel better after being sick
- Finding something special delivered on your doorstep
- Lighting your favorite candle
- Taking the first sip of your favorite beverage
- Stepping on crunchy leaves in the fall
- Eating a nib of dark chocolate
- Looking back at old photos
- Visiting your favorite place in your hometown
- Reflecting on good times with old friends
- Coming into work to an organized desk
- Being able to sit back relax after a long day
- Hearing the wind blow a windchime
- Smelling fresh laundry tumbling in the dryer
- Breathing salty fresh air at the beach
- Buying something nice for yourself “just because”
- Waking up to snow on the ground
- Taking the first bite of your favorite meal
- Visiting a new local park and being proud of your community
- Coming home to a clean house
- Planning an event to honor someone else
- Hugging someone who needs emotional support
- Being able to let loose and show your true self
- Going to the farmer’s market on a Saturday morning
- Writing on the last page of a journal
- Waiting for the ocean to wash up to your toes
- Realizing there’s another season of the show you love
- Being read out loud to
- Going on a long walk with your dog
- Blowing bubbles with bubble gum
- Taking time to plan your week and get organized
- Giving an unexpected gift
- Staying dry under an umbrella
- Taking a cleansing deep breath
- Seeing the fireflies start blinking on a summer night
- Listening to live music
- Finishing a good book and starting a new book
- Staying inside on a stormy day
- Tracking goal progress in your journal
- Watching your favorite show with someone who’s never seen it before
- Shaking hand warmers and feeling them start to heat up
- Making people laugh with an unintentional joke or pun
- Popping bubble wrap after opening a package
- Getting a baby to giggle or smile at you
- Merging on the highway at the start of a road trip
- Sitting by a campfire
- Picking up a loved one at the airport
- Getting your hair brushed by someone else
- Realizing your favorite clothing item is actually clean
- Listening to little kids have a conversation
- Coming home from work
- Adding fairy lights to your bedroom or favorite home space
- Taking fresh-baked cookies out of the oven
- Turning up the radio when a good song comes on
- Experiencing post-workout endorphins or “runner’s high”
- Trying on clothes that fit perfectly
- Helping someone when they’re in need
- Putting on your favorite perfume
- Getting an unexpected compliment on your work
- Finding money left in a coat pocket
- Using a coupon code when shopping online
- Climbing into bed with fresh sheets
- Perfectly wrapping a present
- Seeing a city skyline
- Noticing the seasons changing
- Putting chapstick on dry lips
- Shedding bulky coats and scarves
- Planting flower bulbs in winter and seeing them bloom in spring
- Getting positive test results back
- Adding a new line to your resume
- Having the door held for you
- Smelling freshly cut grass
- Dipping down into a hot tub or stepping into a sauna
- Soaking in a bubble bath
- Seeing the positive impact of meditating daily
- Snuggling up under a cozy blanket
- Sharing a home-cooked meal with friends
- Catching up with an old friend
- Taking a hot shower
- Holding hands for the first time with someone you like
- Going on a trip with your best friend
- Eating a popsicle on a hot summer day
- Getting in a good workout when you didn’t want to
- Going to a new place for dinner
- Planning your next vacation
- Finding little things you thought you’d lost
- Having enough time to stop for hot coffee before work
- Taking an afternoon nap
- Sleeping in on a Sunday morning
- Testing out a new recipe
- A morning journaling session
- Looking through and reflecting on old photos
- That first sip of your favorite hot beverage
- Taking a long, leisurely bike ride
- Trying a new food
- Seeing the sun rise
- Getting up earlier than everyone else
- A bowl of ice cream
- Lying in the sun on an early summer day
- That first sip of coffee
- When you stumble upon the perfect quote
- A text from a friend you haven't heard from in a while
1 comment
YES! to all of these. I’m daydreaming about each one, and this list reminds me of the book, Cold Tangerines by Shauna Niequist.